


Queer Women Rising® is the podcast for single lesbian women who are done confusing chaos with chemistry. It’s for women ready to move forward with discernment… whether that means dating differently, opening their hearts again, or drawing inspiration from queer women thriving in love and business.
Hosted by The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker and founder of the Queer Country Club®, Sophia Spallino, this show features intimate, unfiltered conversations with lesbian friends, founders, lovers, and leaders about dating, desire, power dynamics, and what it actually takes to create a life partnership that feels peaceful, intimate, and alive.
No performative healing.
No dating delusions.
How to spot emotional availability early
Why attraction without alignment always costs you
Dating patterns high-caliber queer women refuse to repeat
Building lesbian love that supports your life instead of disrupting it
Desire, polarity, and choosing peace without losing passion
This queer dating advice is not for everyone.
About Your Host,


As a lesbian over 30, I KNOW love is not enough. Lifestyle compatibility is everything.
I came out at 29, walked away from the life I thought I was supposed to have, and stepped into my truth.
But once I got here? Whew. Finding quality lesbians... you know, the ones with actual careers, ambition, and a life they love, was harder than I expected.
I was sick of swiping through women who were “just curious,” still married to men, or had zero direction. Like, where were the high-value women? The ones who knew what they wanted, had their own thing going, and were actually ready for real commitment?
So, I did what any smart, slightly obsessive lesbian would do... I figured out a better way. I’ve spent over five years in the dating industry, working with over a thousand women to help them not just find love, but keep it.
As the founder of The Queer Country Club®, I’ve seen first-hand what works and what doesn’t when it comes to queer relationships.
What I do isn’t just matchmaking. It’s aligning energy, lifestyle, and long-term values.
If you’re a high-value woman who’s done wasting time on the wrong people and ready to meet someone who actually matches your energy, let’s talk.
Because love shouldn’t be a guessing game.
You deserve the real deal.
Check out the Queer Womxn Rising™ podcast
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Perfect for the private woman who wants us to do the heavy lifting
Matches delivered on a "silver platter" so you don't waste time swiping, guessing or settling for women who aren't serious
Starts with a $247 consultation and the full investment ranges from $2k to $10k
Note: If you realize during the call that luxury matchmaking isn't the right fit, Sophia will be sure you leave with personalized dating strategy and coaching.
Event designed for growth-minded WLW women looking for love, connection, and high-caliber queer community
Hosted by the Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, with a legacy of creating meaningful connections
A thoughtfully curated single lesbian experience for women who understand the power of the right room
Meet quality, high-value monogamous lesbians
Swipe-less dating club experience
Live virtual singles events
Proprietary AI Matching
As low as $17 per month
Dating strategies and relationship advice
Support reentering the dating world
Breakup breakthrough closure practices
$333 per session

